It is not uncommon after a divorce that one or both spouses express a desire to relocate, whether their intent is to change jobs, to get a fresh start, or for some other reason. However, if there are children involved in the marriage and divorce, it is incumbent upon all involved to have a discussion about where one is able to relocate and still have contact with their children, presuming contact is still a desired goal. Illinois law regarding relocation was amended at the beginning of last year, so some well-meaning parents may not even be aware that restrictions are now different. Still, the consequences can be significant for those who do not follow the law.

Notice Is Mandatory

The first thing to be aware of when discussing relocation ability is that notice must be provided to the other parent in writing, and it must be at least 60 days before the planned relocation if possible. If not, “as soon as practicable” will generally suffice. You must provide your new address and moving date (if known), as well as a rough approximation of how long the relocation will last if it is intended to be temporary. For example, a military servicemember may seek to relocate with his or her children for the duration of their assignment at a specific base or posting.

When a marriage is clearly headed for divorce court, sometimes one or both spouses will resort to practices that are not strictly acceptable; some may even be unlawful. Hiding assets is one of the most common of these practices, but its commonality does not make it easier to spot. Some spouses are very successful at hiding assets with other people or in alternate accounts, but there are ways that you can discover such actions and obtain some manner of restitution.

Full Financial Disclosure Is Required

Illinois law demands both spouses provide a full accounting of all marital and non-marital property once divorce proceedings have begun. At the beginning, it can be easier for assets to be hidden, especially by the spouse that governs the household finances, but the discovery process, where both spouses must provide financial records and other documents, can make that much more difficult even if someone does not make a full disclosure. Forensic accountants can trace expenditures through transactions that can otherwise look innocent, and discovery is the time when it is easiest to pick up the proverbial trail.

In this day and age, the marriage rate has dropped to a fraction of what it once was in our parents and grandparents’ day, but this does not mean that people are not in family relationships. Many couples have simply chosen not to marry legally, for a variety of different reasons, but they still share assets, and they still, at least in theory, share responsibility for any children they may have. Some parents, especially fathers, find themselves shut out of their children’s lives, but these fathers do have rights. It is up to them to try and obtain custody or visitation or to adjust support payments if they can prove the need.

The Right to Assert Paternity

In Illinois, when a child is born in a hospital or birthing center to unmarried parents, the parents will be given what is referred to as a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity (VAP) form. One of the most common and most costly errors that many unmarried fathers make is in thinking that once they execute a VAP, they have visitation or custody rights. This may be the case in other states, but in Illinois, no such rights exist until a court order is entered that establishes them directly.

The divorce rate is higher than it once was, and court dockets around the country reflect this reality. As such, some couples are seeking other methods by which to settle their divorce quickly and amicably, and mediation has emerged as the most common in recent years. While it is not for everyone, there are multiple advantages over going to court that can benefit many couples, and the process is generally worth some consideration.

Clear Advantages

Perhaps the most notable advantage to mediation is the ability to begin relatively quickly. Court appearances can drag on or even take a long time to begin depending how crowded a court’s docket may be. To commence mediation, the only thing required is a mediator, though each side may still wish to retain their own attorneys. Illinois mediators are required to adhere to certain standards and practices, as well as to complete training courses totaling at least 40 hours, but there are enough trained mediators in Illinois that it should not be difficult to find one.

In early May 2017, Illinois announced the opening of the statewide ABLE Act Program, billed as a life-changer for those with disabilities. The Achieving a Better Life Experience Act, known as the ABLE Act, was passed by the federal government in 2014, and states were given the opportunity to develop an appropriate program to administer the infrastructure. Illinois’s took some time to complete, but at this point, the program is open and able to receive applications. Naturally, one might wonder if applying is worth the effort. The answer is going to depend on your individual situation, especially if you or another person has guardianship over your disabled loved one.

The Program

Normally, in order to receive Supplemental Security Income (SSI), you must show that you have very few assets of your own, and your total net worth must remain under $2,000. However, as costs of living have risen and insurance companies have cut back on the coverage they will provide, such a limit is not tenable for many, especially families, who may need that supplemental income. For example, it is not uncommon for a disabled person to marry, and then promptly lose their benefits. This happens because his or her spouse’s income is counted among their own assets, as that person’s income is counted among his or her spouse’s assets. Such outcomes are patently inequitable.